Abraham Hicks talking not only about the law of attraction, but also the law of receptivity which is all about the feminine. We live in a culture where theres too much yang emphasis - in women too. This is internalized sexism, alas. Plus it leads to
Everyday We Decide Who We Will Be By The Actions We Take
My father taught me to be nice first because you can always be mean later. But once you've been mean to someone, they won't believe the nice anymore. So, be nice; be nice until it's time to stop being nice, then destroy them.