"It becomes special because you have made it so. Marriage is only sacred if you believe it is. It has NOTHING to do with the gender of the people getting married. it has EVERYTHING to do with their attitude toward the relationship.
Most things will be okay eventually, but not everything will be. Sometimes, you'll put up a good fight and lose. Sometimes, you'll hold on really hard and realize there is no choice but to let go. Acceptance is a small, quiet room. So true.