If you want to know if someone is "real" tell them an obvious lie. A human will recognize it for what it is immediately, a cursed will not. They may look real, but they are not. Only real eyes realize real lies.
It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men. _ Our children will have battles ahead of them that we are preparing them for today. How can we? How did our parents prepare us? Eternal questions in parenting.