The idea that women cannot be abusive and controlling is again, part of patriarchy. Male victims should not be ignored. Feminists care about this. You use "men are abused and raped too" as an excuse BUT, OH, LOOK HOW YOU HANDLED THAT.
Disclaimer (necessary because Donald Trump proves conclusively, that too many believe everything they read/hear). Pp: "The first Slate headline is from an actual article, the second is a sarcastic response.
He's a terrorist. It's literally that easy.
Basically if you want women to have to do certain jobs then you gotta respect those jobs and pay them well and not belittle them for being "women's work" and you gotta respect if a woman doesn't wanna do it but a man does y'know