“We are told to love people unconditionally, but sometimes we must get rid of people unconditionally. Some toxic people just keep slithering and oozing in through the cracks in your resolve; they refuse to respect your boundaries.
Narcissistic Relationships You work harder than your partner to fix the problems.” You hope things will magically get better at some point in the future. You suppress your personality to avoid conflicts
When nobody else celebrates you, learn to celebrate yourself. When nobody else compliments you, then compliment yourself. It’s not up to other people to keep you encouraged. It’s up to you. Encouragement should come from the inside.
The Psychopath Free Pledge: I will never beg or plead for someone else again. Any man or woman who brings me to that level is not worth my heart. I will never tolerate criticisms about my body, age, weight, job, or any other insecurities I might.
So is he lying when he says he loves you? Most of my clients do feel a powerful sensation inside that they call love. For many of them, it is the only kind of feeling toward a female partner that they have ever had, so they have no way.
Don't Keep Dancing with the devil and wonder why you are still in Hell. -- This is what I needed three years ago and to live every day since then. You don't need closure. You don't need an apology from anyone other than other than from yourself.
Put your own oxygen masks on first. We can guve and help othrrs only from our overflow and reserve of good energy. We must help ourselves first and then give to others. VALUE YOURSELVES EVEN IF IT MEANS HARD WORK!
"I want to help you, but you have to be a willing participant. If you're not, then I am no longer helping you up; it is you who is pulling me down." - Steve Maraboli //// Great mindset for a sponsor to live by.
Amen "controllers, abusers and manipulative people don't question themselves. they don't ask themselves if the problem is them. they always say the problem is SOMEONE else" - so true for this narcissist who puts people on back burners!