You don't need religion to have morals. If you can't determine right from wrong then you lack empathy, not religion. Simple as that. No need to blame religion on your lack of morals. In the end, it's a battle between you and your soul.
Amen "controllers, abusers and manipulative people don't question themselves. they don't ask themselves if the problem is them. they always say the problem is SOMEONE else" - so true for this narcissist who puts people on back burners!