7 Patriotic Themed Care Packages. Milsos, military girlfriends, military wives, army fiancés, army spouses, army girlfriends whatever you call them, they are so creative! See 7 amazingly creative Fourth of July, patriotic themed care packages. Get some great ideas for next 4th of July because deployments do love to sneak around the corner! Care packages are such a fun way to show your loved one you care while they are away on a deployment. Or even if you are sending to a missionary!