""I don't see race. I'm a good person." Translation: I'm going to use my place of privilege to refute and deny the sufferings of those who do not have white privilege while at the same time erasing their personal and cultural history.
The 'ending' gender roles I don't like, because most kids and adults fit well in their gender roles and we can mske room for the outliers. But if you wont be happy untill gender roles are ended you will never be happy.