I learned the hard way that I cannot always count on others to respect my feeling. Even if I respect theirs. Being a good person doesn't . As for others, you can only choose to accept them or walk away.
Detach from the things that bother you so much... you nearly slip into your less than your best self. Don't get caught up in the negative. Deep breath. Don't let stuff bother you. Don't let it in. You're happier than you've ever been. Walk away from anything that tries to take that away. Grace and dignity. Maintain that mindset.