I know people like this. So… Messy kitchen = great meals. Pet hair, furniture with scratch marks, and dog toys to trip over = cuddly bundles of love. Cluttered table tops = fun projects and handmade gifts for friends. Please don't judge my dust.
You will never truly understand the struggles of another person. Remember to realize how hard your own struggles are for you. The other guy feels the same way. We are all trying to make our way in this world so make it easy on everyone and don't judge.