Learning to Ignore things is one of the great paths to inner peace. It's also one of the most fascinating path to evil. Just ignore your conscience, just ignore that voice that tells you that what you are doing is wrong.
Ugh, so true BUT the twist is that we shouldn't expect anything in return. We should just pour out love and expect nothing in return. Tough thought, but truth. The way The Lord wants us to live, I'll keep living my life for The Lord!
If that person is hurt by your actions and words, that's what matters. That person is hurt by you, so care enough to take that pain away not bring more to them by trying to explain why you thought it was right and okay.