it could say condem because juding isn't a bad thing. We always judge and that's a good thing - we judge the food we want to eat, the choices we make, the people we hang out with. The difficulty is being able to judge without condeming others judgement.
Family isn't always blood. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs; the ones who accept you for who you are. The ones who would do anything to see you smile & who love you Friends are the family you choose.
"Be the kind of woman that when your feet hit the floor each morning the devil says, 'oh crap, she's up'" - on Being A Strong Woman Of Faith. For I am a warrior and I belong to God. Greater is He that is in me than he that is in the world!