Kay Arthur's book, Lord, is it Warfare? Teach Me to Stand... this links to my discussion of the first three chapters of the book on my blog, prayer-power.com ... along with one of my videos showing the book, and a list of "red flag warning signs" you may find helpful.
Not everything believed a biblical truth is truly biblical. he authors debunk 12 commonly accepted beliefs that cause bondage rather than liberty. They explain how nuggets of truth become cornerstones for error when wrongly understood, and they help build solid scriptural foundations that produce emotional freedom.