I'm a fence sitter, it's a position I often take, it's not the cowards way, its just a slower way to reaching an idea and weighing up the pros and cons, seeing both sides to an argument. This c s lewis quote sums it up perfectly
One lie casts aspersions on every 'I love you' and every 'I'm sorry.' If they lie about little things, they're practicing for big lies. Liars cheat, cheaters lie and betrayal is just waiting to make its entrance. Don't lie to me!