Love is not & or & Love is & and & though& and & spite of& - 1 Corinthians describes true, agap? love - very few people truly love you like this, so if you find one, hang on to them as you would a fine gem
The last part there is key!
Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world, today I am wise so I am changing myself. You are the only one you can change, by changing yourself, you inspire others to change themselves.