There really are dangerous people like this. They will attempt to destroy you, then pretended to pick up the pieces - acting lik the "savior". These people want you to remain a slave to their control. Remember who your Savior really is!
That is so important. Love is never deceitful. It isn't deceitful to your spouse. And it isn't deceitful to your children. If there is deceit in a relationship, it is not true love, rather it is self-serving and selfish for personal gain.