I've seen this image doing the rounds of Facebook and Pinterest. It is toxic crap. I'm glad I don't do this to other women and even more glad that I don't associate with women who are so shallow. When you relinquish petty judgement of others, you also remove the joy-sucking judgement of yourself. How about looking for the things you have in common (i.e. the bottom line is we all want to be treated with respect) rather than focussing on ridiculous trivial details.