Seeing this more and more in my life.and yeah it hurts when you open yourself up to people.and get rejected for some unknown reason.it makes me feel worthless. But I know Im better than that.I just have to reinforce how much stronger I am.
Blame Shifting - When Someone You Love Puts it all on You - "Disarm with compassion and clarity. - I’m not excusing bad behavior, but rather seeking explanations beyond “he’s just a bad person.” When you’re feeling wounded by a blame shifter’s words, try
Tact: for people who don't understand sarcasm or take themselves too seriously Sarcasm: for people who can read between the lines or don't know how to be serious Face Punch: for people who don't know when to stop being sarcastic