sometimes this is hard to do, yet if life seems too hard, start singing praises to God - pray/thank Him for taking care of you, for seeing you through - be dependent on Him, waiting for Him to answer - we always want God's best in our lives.
we try booze and drugs to make sense. we try counselors and psychiatrists to make sense. we read self help books. BUT we need to read THE BOOK, the Bible, to clear up the fog and make sense of our lives.