Finally, a pastor that has read the Bible. True Christians are not homophobes, but the reality is that most people in the church are just that "church people" with no idea what the bible says. Only God can judge.
And I understand. I understand why people hold hands: I'd always thought it was about possessiveness, saying 'this is mine.' But it's about maintaining contact. It is about speaking without words. It is about 'I want you with me' and 'don't go.