A strong happy woman who was so full of life, possibilities, enthusiasm, vitality. Sucked dry for 30 years. You don't just pick yourself up and move on after this. The man you thought you married is dead - he never existed - It feels
You are allowed to terminate your relationship with toxic family members. You are allowed to walk away from people who hurt you. You are allowed to be angry & selfish & unforgiving & don't owe anyone an explanation for taking care of you.
An unpleasant memory. I dislike you for that, it was much easier not to be. Be very careful. I can't help but imagine yours won't end well and that hurts me+ scares me for you. Try to eliminate your vengefulness, it's so damn petty
Amen "controllers, abusers and manipulative people don't question themselves. they don't ask themselves if the problem is them. they always say the problem is SOMEONE else" - so true for this narcissist who puts people on back burners!