If you don't have the special connection and are not attracted to them physically and emotionally it will go nowhere. My soul is much more passionate and is always on fire. I'm a man that stands against evil without any fear.
I dislike how these sorts of things tend to isolate other groups of people as if setting aside one group as superior. But the idea that we are not alone in feeling this way, and that it is ok, is what I am taking home with me.