"To heal a wound you need to stop touching it." Leave it alone, I get it but some wounds are open because they were never addressed corectly. like when a scar forms, there will always be a reminder of what happened and to teach what not to do again.
ISFJ, loyal to the bitter end. And it can be a bitter end for the ISFJ as they tend to put blinders on, making it difficult to see people as they are, with flaws. Because of this, the ISFJ tends to be taken advantage of.