Rise above those who try to accuse you of things you had nothing to do with. Give them no grief over it an keep going on with your day bc its not your problem. Treat them no different then u did before so then the only person who is effected by it is the one who made it a problem. Drama only goes as far as you let it. So rise above it all an you will be better off in your life.
The importance of understanding none of us are "Everyones Cup of Tea". And you know what, that's absolutely fine. That's what makes the world go around. Our personality traits & interests often draw up to our tribe. Don't waste time, trying to bend yourself into a pretzel, just to fit in with people who you will never get on with. Walk away. Learn to find your people, your tribe and become who you truly are. Self confidence, self esteem & self care.
Some people have abusive, negative, controlling tendencies in their blood; they are wired for havoc, bickering and deception. They know of no other way to interface with others except through their created chaos. Chaos is their homecourt advantage where they play their mindgames so they can have power over you; it's a rigged game you can never win. Listen...
You are being called to heal yourself, not to agonize over your mistakes. QUIT OVERTHINKING; this is what surrendering really means. Don't obsess about "fixing" things. Simly relax and give yourself some time.
bryantmcgill: ““If you met your exact self as another person, would you like them? Would they be a good friend? Would they seem kind, generous and loving? Would they have time and patience, and invest.