Cleaning House: A Mom's Twelve-Month Experiment to Rid Her Home of Youth Entitlement by Kay Hill--would this work with Kyle? Wills Wyma, Great book about establishing a sense of responsibility in your children. LOVE this book!
actually, my family frequently has entire conversations in movie/TV quotes. (most of the TV quotes we use are from Gilmore Girls, Firefly and Veronica Mars. movie quotes are from way too many movies to mention)