Dating is not only a numbers game but an ATTRACTION game. When you focus on attracting the right person and start dating the feminine way, you attract your…
If he sends "I miss you" after 3 months of ghosting you might have thoughts like "He didn't forget me." "He really missed me." Truth is, he is probably just bored and needs someone to entertain him. If you're looking for a bit of fun, go ahead. BUT if you're looking for a committed, loving relationship, this guy is probably not what you're looking for.
Today I want to invite you to look inward and to ask yourself - why are you dating? Are you dating for the sake of meeting more people? Or are you dating to find your soulmate? Because these 2 are completely different games. Dating for the sake of meeting people is a numbers game. But LOVE IS AN ATTRACTION GAME.
Does it feel sometimes you don't know what to say? Or do you feel like you mess up and scare away the guy? Or maybe you feel that your communication with guys is the reason you're still single? I feel you and I remember the times I asked myself: "Why did I say that?" Of course, there is a temptation to use someone else's words and scripts so that you always know what to say. But the truth is, your dream man is looking for you, what you have to say, in your own words and from your heart.
If you ask a guy what are his plans for your relationship and he runs away, it's natural to start feeling like you've done something wrong or that you've scared away the guy. But the truth is so far from it. The only reason why the guy is getting scared by this question or a talk of a committed relationship is - he's not the right guy for you!
It's much easier to look for a quick fix and focus on meeting as many people as possible instead of doing the inner work that will lead to finding your soulmate. Your love life reflects your inner state: mindset, confidence, healing pain from the past, openness to receive love.
Our thoughts create our reality. The way you speak and think about your love life can change how your love life looks like and what kind of men you're attracting. Today we'll shift some of your old thinking that doesn't serve you into new empowering thoughts that get you a relationship you desire.